Kesubos 64b
כתובות ס״ד ע״ב
Ketubot 64b
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Topic
The rule of the מורד and מורדת, and the minimum support a husband gives his wife through a שליש, with the גמרא's calculation of the weekly meals
Overview
The amud opens with the last words of a reason from the previous page: the rebellious spouse's payment is set so it does not look like שכר שבת. Then רבי חייא בר יוסף asks שמואל why a מורדת is penalized more than a מורד. שמואל gives two answers: a man suffers more from the lack, and his desire shows outwardly, which adds embarrassment. A new משנה follows. It lists what a husband must give a wife he supports through a שליש: grain, legumes, oil, fruit, a bed, clothing, and a silver מעה. It also sets how much wool she spins for him, eases things for a nursing wife, and says these are minimums for a poor man. The גמרא asks whose measure of a meal fits the two קבין of wheat. Using רב חסדא's rule about the storekeeper's profit, and extra meals for guests and travelers, it shows the amount can fit every opinion. It then explains רבי יוסי's comment on barley as being about the double amount, because the barley of אדום was poor. The amud ends by noting that the משנה leaves out wine, which supports רבי אלעזר. His words come on the next amud.
Opening lines
מִיחֲזֵי כִּשְׂכַר שַׁבָּת.
It looks like Shabbat wages.
אֲמַר לֵיהּ רַבִּי חִיָּיא בַּר יוֹסֵף לִשְׁמוּאֵל:
Rabbi Chiyya bar Yosef said to Shmuel:
מָה בֵּין מוֹרֵד לְמוֹרֶדֶת?
What is the difference between a rebellious husband and a rebellious wife?
אֲמַר לֵיהּ: צֵא וּלְמַד מִשּׁוּק שֶׁל זוֹנוֹת,
He said to him: Go and learn from the market of prostitutes,
The steps (36)
- ResolutionIt would look like getting paid for Shabbat
- QuestionWhy is a rebellious wife penalized more than a rebellious husband?
- ResponseLook at who pays whom
- ResponseA second answer: his desire shows on the outside
- StatementMinimum grain for a wife supported through a third party
- Statementרבי יוסי: barley was only allowed in רבי ישמעאל's area
- StatementLegumes, oil and figs
- StatementA bed and mats
- StatementHead covering, belt, shoes and yearly clothing
- StatementWhen to give the clothes, and who keeps the worn ones
- StatementSpending money, Friday-night meals, and her earnings
- StatementHow much wool she spins for him
- StatementA nursing wife works less and eats more
- StatementThese are the minimum amounts for a poor man
- QuestionWhose view does the משנה follow?
- ProofThe משנה in עירובין: food for two meals
- Proofרבי יוחנן בן ברוקא's and רבי שמעון's measures
- ProofThe quote ends: smaller amounts for impurity rules
- ChallengeThe math fits neither opinion
- ResolutionAdd a third for the storekeeper's profit
- ChallengeStill only twelve meals
- ResolutionShe eats Friday night with her husband
- ChallengeWhat if 'eating' means marital relations?
- ChallengeEven then, thirteen meals are needed
- Resolutionרב חסדא's other version: add a half
- Challengeרב חסדא seems to contradict himself
- ResolutionIt depends on whether wood is paid for separately
- ChallengeNow there are too many meals: sixteen
- ResolutionThe sixteen fits רבי חידקא's four Shabbat meals
- ResolutionIt can also fit the רבנן: one extra meal for guests
- ConclusionNow even רבי שמעון's eighteen meals fit
- StatementQuoting רבי יוסי on barley
- ChallengeIs barley eaten only in אדום?
- ResolutionThe point is the double amount of barley
- StatementQuoting the half קב of legumes
- ProofNo wine on the list supports רבי אלעזר