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Kesubos 68b

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Ketubot 68b

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Topic

A daughter's dowry (פרנסה) from her father's estate: equal division, losing it by maturing or marrying, the role of protest, and how it differs from a תנאי כתובה

Overview

The גמרא first explains רבי's rule that daughters 'divide equally': it applies only when they all marry at the same time, and this supports רב מתנה. Next, a ברייתא records an argument about a daughter who matured or married. Everyone agrees she loses her food support (מזונות). רבי says she keeps her dowry (פרנסה), and רבי שמעון בן אלעזר says she loses that too. רב נחמן rules like רבי, and רבא challenges him from the משנה about an orphan girl. The answer is that she keeps her dowry if she protests, and silence counts as giving it up. Another ברייתא of רבי confirms this. רבא's own ruling that she sometimes need not protest is explained by whether her brothers still feed her. Finally, רב הונא quotes רבי that a dowry is not like a תנאי כתובה. After two rejected explanations, the גמרא shows the real difference: a father can cancel his daughters' dowry but not their food.

Opening lines

כׇּל חֲדָא וַחֲדָא

Each and every one

דְּנַפְשַׁהּ שָׁקְלָה?

takes her own [share]! (So why divide equally?)

הָכִי קָאָמַר:

This is what he is saying:

אִם בָּאוּ כּוּלָּם לְהִנָּשֵׂא כְּאַחַת

If they all come to be married at the same time,

The steps (22)

  1. ChallengeWhy should the daughters split their dowries equally?
  2. ResolutionEqual division applies only when they all marry at once
  3. ProofThis supports רב מתנה
  4. ChallengeCould they all share only one tenth?
  5. ResolutionEach takes a tenth, all in equal measure
  6. StatementDoes a daughter who matured or married lose her dowry?
  7. StatementHow to save the dowry: marry before maturing
  8. StatementThe הלכה follows רבי
  9. Challengeרבא challenges רב נחמן from the משנה about the orphan girl
  10. ResolutionProtesting versus staying silent
  11. ProofSupport: otherwise רבי would contradict himself
  12. ConclusionConclusion: it depends on protest
  13. StatementWhen does she need to protest?
  14. ChallengeDoes רבא contradict what he accepted from רב נחמן?
  15. ResolutionIt depends on whether her brothers still feed her
  16. Statementרב הונא: פרנסה is not like a תנאי כתובה
  17. QuestionWhat does "not like a תנאי כתובה" mean?
  18. RejectionFirst try: collecting from sold land, which is already known
  19. ResponseSecond try: collecting from movable property
  20. Rejectionרבי lets both be collected from movable property
  21. QuestionSo what does רבי's rule really mean?
  22. ResponseA father can cancel the dowry but not his daughters' food