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Kiddushin 71b

קידושין ע״א ע״ב

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Topic

Checking family lineage (יוחסין) before marriage: the clean status of בבל, signs of good lineage, and the borders of בבל

Overview

The amud opens by settling a contradiction between two clauses of an earlier source. Before a marriage we check a family's lineage, but we do not force apart a couple who are already married without proof of a problem. רב יוסף rules that anyone who speaks like a Babylonian may marry without a check, though nowadays swindlers fake the accent, so we stay careful. Two stories follow. In the first, זעירי avoids marrying רבי יוחנן's daughter, and the גמרא explains that עזרא left בבל pure 'like fine flour.' In the second, עולא tells רב יהודה that nobody can be sure of his own lineage, using פסוקים from איכה and עמוס. עולא then gives a practical test: the one who goes quiet first in a quarrel comes from the better family. רב agrees that silence is the sign of lineage in בבל, and that ongoing feuds hint at a hidden flaw. The amud ends by ranking the lineage of different lands and mapping the borders of בבל along the Tigris and the Euphrates.

Opening lines

כָּאן – לְהַשִּׂיאוֹ אִשָּׁה,

Here – it is about marrying a woman to him,

כָּאן – לְהוֹצִיא אִשָּׁה מִיָּדוֹ.

there – it is about removing a woman from him.

אָמַר רַב יוֹסֵף:

Rav Yosef says:

כֹּל שֶׁסִּיחָתוֹ בְּבָבֶל,

Anyone whose speech is Babylonian,

The steps (40)

  1. ResolutionTwo clauses, two situations: marrying versus separating
  2. Statementרב יוסף: a Babylonian speaker may marry without a check
  3. StatementNowadays, because of swindlers, we are careful
  4. Statementזעירי avoids רבי יוחנן and carries him across the water
  5. Challengeרבי יוחנן: our Torah is fit but our daughters are not?
  6. Rejectionרבי יוחנן rejects the 'ten lineages' reason
  7. Rejectionרבי יוחנן missed רבי אלעזר's teaching about Ezra
  8. Statementעולא visits and sees רב יהודה's son is unmarried
  9. Questionעולא asks why the son is not married
  10. Responseרב יהודה is unsure where to find clean lineage
  11. Challengeעולא argues that none of us knows our own lineage
  12. ChallengeEven if such a child is כשר, we might come from immoral people
  13. Rejectionרבי אבהו mocks the mild reading of the פסוק
  14. Statementרבי אבהו explains the sin as wife-swapping
  15. QuestionSo what are we supposed to do?
  16. ResponseWatch who goes quiet first in a fight
  17. StatementIn בבל too, silence shows good lineage
  18. ChallengeBut רב checked a family's lineage directly
  19. ResolutionHe was checking their silence
  20. StatementTwo people who keep feuding
  21. StatementTwo families that keep feuding
  22. Statementרב's health chart of the lands
  23. QuestionWhat's the difference between sick and dying?
  24. ResponseMost sick people live, most dying people die
  25. QuestionHow far does בבל reach?
  26. Responseרב and שמואל name two rivers
  27. QuestionHow far north along the Tigris?
  28. Responseרב says בגדא and אוונא; שמואל says מושכני
  29. ChallengeIsn't Mushekanei part of Babylonia?
  30. ResolutionUntil and including מושכני
  31. QuestionHow far south along the Tigris?
  32. ResponseUntil Lower אפמייא
  33. StatementTwo towns named אפמייא
  34. StatementHow to remember which one is flawed
  35. QuestionHow far north along the Euphrates?
  36. ResponseThree opinions on the Euphrates border
  37. Statementאביי cursed those who followed רב
  38. ChallengeWhy curse over רב but not שמואל?
  39. ResolutionAll the more so over שמואל
  40. ResolutionThe bridge was actually farther south